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for my fellow queer feedists out there:

have your feedist tendencies affected how you experience attraction at all? which form of attraction did you notice first?

for me, discovering the feedism community when i was young is what made me realize i was attracted to women, as a large percentage of weight gain media is based around women gaining weight specifically. obviously, with or without the kink, i would still be attracted to women, but feedism played an integral part in my queer awakening, and i don't think i would've discovered myself as soon as i did without it.

I'm a Pan feedee, I'm basically attracted to women or femme presenting people of any size. But I'm only really attracted to men or masc presenting people who are chubbier. When I first discovered feedism I started watching women gain weight, but eventually when I discovered the r/gainers subreddit I realized some of those guys were really hot and that was one of my first signs that I wasn't straight

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. It's interesting, I'm more attracted to femme presenting ppl who are much smaller than me, I enjoy the contrast. As for men, I've always preferred bigger guys. Not bigger than me necessarily, but I love when they're a bit husky at least. More than anything though, a good connection with communication and trust exceeds all of the above